He had been sober again for a year or so when I spoke with him about the abuse. My sister, Kathy (now Kathy Pranschke), had been in therapy for PTSD for many years.
Jim had been diagnosed with schizophrenia and had been on medication for years. She knew she had been abused by my grandmother (our mother’s mother). Kathy also confided that she had visited a therapist who hypnotized her.
Kevin Randall – who I had gone to for pastoral counseling was also one of the abusers.
During the marriage and the abuse, I began to medicate myself with alcohol to numb the pain. In Germany we went out to dinner frequently; and I would have a glass or two of wine.One the drive home, Tom would buy a bottle of wine for me and during the course of the long evening (which abuse almost always occurred) I would consume the bottle. I had tried to cut back on my drinking over the years and tried to enlist Tom’s help. Megan was already reading and advanced for her age, although she would have been one of the youngest in her class. Single wohnung ybbs an der donau He enabled me by buying the wine each night and offered at times to buy cases of wine which I always refused. Tom started taking Karate Tech classes on base and reached the level of black belt. The classes were not completely based on age; but on age and/or belt rank. By now, Tom was an expert in knowing how to abuse me without leaving marks.I once told him I thought abuse was in my past and that I was having marital problems. Marcantonio is also a Catholic priest who was a priest at Landstuhl Post. During the last year of living in the same house with Tom, I was sober. My entries are detailed accounts of the abuse – both childhood and adult abuse situations.Tom Doyle referred me to a licensed marriage and family counselor (Virginia licensure) named Fr. Tom continued to offer me wine and at times during the abuse he would try to force me to drink it. I started to let myself face the truth, to remember, and to talk about the abuse to someone I could trust. It was difficult to share these entries; and, PTSD is an effect of the physical and psychological abuse/torture.
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When Robert had doubts about my being his child, he left my mother.It is possible there were also other reasons he left.Tom also told me he would kill Megan and make it look like I did it if I told anyone of the abuse and if I did not obey him.To say I was terrified of my husband would be a gross understatement.After several meetings with Kevin Randall over a year or so, I again confided that my use of alcohol bothered me. Tom Doyle, an Air Force Catholic Chaplain who worked on Ramstein Air Base (the same base Tom worked on).
I started meeting with Tom Doyle around August 2002 regarding my alcohol issues. In December, 2002, I joined AA, attended 90 meetings in 90 days, and have been sober since.
It took Tom and I time to find the perfect house in Germany.
We moved into a big, single family, two-story dwelling in a small German village.
I called my elder sister, Linda, and asked her what she remembered about the abuse towards me.
Linda has always told us that she has very little memory of her own childhood.